tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-75667466357733336622024-03-14T07:04:01.882-06:00living out loudAnniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.comBlogger125125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-32675904440672475462013-01-01T08:41:00.002-06:002017-12-29T10:10:10.419-06:00happy new year!Gavin is playing card games on my phone, and Colin is eating Cheerios (no milk), strawberries and blueberries with chopsticks. This is how we roll. Happy New Year!Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-58227300536567022282012-11-10T10:37:00.000-06:002012-11-10T10:37:44.090-06:00Colin sings<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
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Tonight, as I was giving Gavin his goodnight kiss and hug, he said to me "I could hug you forever."Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-77874779051947549822012-07-13T13:31:00.001-06:002012-07-13T13:31:50.332-06:00friday the 13thPeople always talk about Friday the 13th as being an unlucky day. The movies are scary, sure, if I remember correctly, but what is it that makes us so wary? According to <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friday_the_13th">Wikipedia</a>, there is little evidence or written record to show a superstition about the day before the 19th or 20th century. I thought it was interesting.<br />
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Anyway ... I've decided to declare Friday the 13th <i>my</i> lucky day.<br />
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5/13/2011 - the first Friday the 13th I remember for its significant date - I learned that I had a brain tumor. You would think this would forever tarnish the date or support the superstition, but I am choosing to look at it as a <u>lucky</u> day. I finally learned what was wrong with me, and that it could be fixed. And it WAS fixed.<br />
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4/13/2012 - I was <i>terrified</i> going to my appointment with the medical oncologist, since the last time I saw a doctor on a Friday the 13th I got some crappy news. <i>This</i> time, though, my doc told me that he doesn't need to see me anymore and we can go ahead and call me CURED. Take that, Friday the 13th! Where's your bad luck now?<br />
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7/13/2012 - I didn't even realize there was a Friday the 13th this month until, what, yesterday? Kelly texted and invited the boys to see the new Ice Age movie with her family today. Since they are with her (and I am certain they are <i>loving</i> every minute, they have really missed Kelly and her two lovelies), I have had a day to take care of myself and errands and not drag children with me. Plus I got to have an "adults only" lunch with Scott and eat some yummy sushi. Oh, and I was able to go to the grocery store <i>by myself</i>. You KNOW that is a celebration!<br />
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So, yeah, Friday the 13th is my day. I will own this day. I only remember 3 of them (and one of them is happening right now, so that's not a big triumph, but whatever) but who cares? I will not allow myself to fear a date on the calendar. I'll use it as a way to find a celebration reason instead. Way more fun.Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-39462717441261359672012-06-11T15:31:00.001-06:002012-06-11T15:31:10.102-06:00the smallest moments......can be the biggest joys. They can be forgotten quickly or remembered forever.<br />
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Colin just walked up to where I was sitting and reading. Without words, he crawled up into my lap, wrapped his arms around my neck and curled into me. After a sweet hug, he climbed down and went about his business.<br />
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Earlier today, while I was talking to my mom on the phone, I sprawled out on the couch. Gavin climbed up onto the couch and stretched out along me, settling himself in for a snuggle.<br />
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I have to write these things down. I know I feel right now that I will never, ever forget the feeling I get when my boys share their sweet little boy love with me, and I know that I have already forgotten a million other sweet moments I have shared with them as they have grown. So I record what I can here and hope that I can hold on to these smallest moments for as long as I can.Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-55139434548971240052012-06-07T08:23:00.001-06:002012-06-07T08:23:35.594-06:00summer, summer, summertime<div>
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I joined Weight Watchers in September, and I've been using their online tools to keep track of what I eat and my activity/exercise ever since. I've lost 33 pounds so far! I started running in November, using the RunKeeper app on my phone to keep track of my runs, time my intervals, etc. as I did a walk-to-10K program. In March, Uncle Lindsey came in town from Ohio and ran the Capitol 10K with me in Austin. It was a blast! A friend has a boot camp group at school that meets 2x a week after school for an hour. I joined that group in the spring and did 2 6-week sessions.</div>
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Now I am home for the summer. It occurred to me, even before summer officially began, that I needed to make a schedule for myself to hold myself accountable. I haven't reached my original goals yet (I have a specific weight goal, and it's 10-15 pounds away). I met my goal of running a 10K but now I have a newer goal - make running a permanent part of my lifestyle, whether I'm training for a specific race or not. I want to do strength training. Running is fantastic cardio and is great for helping me with weight loss, but I want to be stronger. I want muscles! Boot camp showed me that I can make a lot of progress, noticeable progress, and I want to keep that up. So I came up with a schedule.</div>
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Monday, Wednesday, and Friday I'm doing the workouts from Jillian Michael's 30 Day Shred. You are supposed to work out every day for 30 days, doing the same level 1 workout for 10 days, then level 2 every day for 10 days, then level 3 the last 10 days (they get progressively more difficult) but I have a couple of problems with this system - 1) I can't do the same things for 10 days. In a row. I would get bored, and then I would quit. 2) My muscles wouldn't have time to rest/recover in between. I think that's an important part of working out; that recovery is when muscle rebuilds and gets stronger. I decided to alternate the workouts, so I'm going between level one and level two right now. When I'm stronger, I will add level three into the mix. Right now, four days into it, I've done level 1 twice and level 2 twice. It's a good fit for me right now - I can do the workouts, they are quick and effective, and I feel awesome (and noodly, with tired arms and legs) afterwards.</div>
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Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday I'm running. Since I seem to do best with a prescribed program, I'm following the 8-week "run farther" program in the book Scott and I used for the walk to 10K program. Working on slowly building myself up to run farther will get me ready to train for the half marathon I want to run in January. At least, that's the plan. I've been getting up early on Tuesdays and Thursdays to run before Scott has to leave for work. Then he's home so the boys aren't alone and it's not so terribly hot outside yet, since the sun is not yet completely up.</div>
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I'm proud of myself for getting started. That's always been the hardest part for me, getting started. Once I get going, I can keep going. If I stop, then I have to get started all over again - and that's hard. So no stopping now!!</div>Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-33463152176715551222012-05-19T17:42:00.001-06:002012-05-19T17:42:33.327-06:005 more days!There are only 5 more school days left! With kids, that is. Then I am supposed to go back on the Tuesday after Memorial Day to finish up. After that, school's out for summer!<br />
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Gavin graduated from Treasure Patch Kids last Tuesday. I didn't take any pictures myself, since Scott had his big fancy camera with him and took all kinds of pictures and video, so as soon as he uploads pics and fiddles with them (as he usually does) I'll come back and post the cuteness. He will now tell you "I'm in kindergarten now!" and he's excited to work on school-type things at home. Today we spent time doing "math work" with manipulatives I brought home from my classroom I never use. He got such a kick out of using the math tools! <br />
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Colin is a screamy mess these days. Evenings are rough, especially around dinner. He's been starting dinner with something rude ("I hate lah-sahg-nah!" was today's gem, complete with mean face and slamming his hand on the table for effect) and landing himself in time-out. Then he'll sit in time-out crying and screaming ("I want my moommmmmmmyyyyyyyyy!") while he refuses to say he's sorry. Then he gets up and tries to climb in my lap while crying. Still no "I'm sorry" since he's stubbornly refusing (most likely, he's just not sorry). I had to leave the kitchen today to get him to quit crying. So now I'm typing here and he's coming in to report every few minutes how many bites he's finally eaten. 3 more and he can have some yogurt for dessert!Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-8886680157947770712012-05-03T19:55:00.000-06:002012-05-03T19:56:00.126-06:00a few of the things I heard from the boys today...I love you, Mom.<br />
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Mommy, will you please wind up the music bear for me?</div>Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-17522362191310468032012-03-16T14:20:00.002-06:002012-03-16T14:29:23.033-06:00outside in the afternoon<div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; ">As I was getting Colin ready for his nap (thank the universe he still takes one in the afternoons!), Gavin came over with my camera and asked if he could take some pictures. He had a blast taking pictures in the back yard. I told him that we could pick his favorite to put online. Here it is:</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><br /></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh00G4HpAuxDolRrkXIDuSwHgS8vJ2aXDyZmY-TjdW-G6cZzV4mLM2AqC8ZcGgnP_uKEXPbej9ubVzrlbpdWEzDx58DmQhyxPQk0zRE4yVHtU_A4RuGFlkQVSb1jHb3KGGwGcSPc_eVQIY0/s1600/P3160155.JPG" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh00G4HpAuxDolRrkXIDuSwHgS8vJ2aXDyZmY-TjdW-G6cZzV4mLM2AqC8ZcGgnP_uKEXPbej9ubVzrlbpdWEzDx58DmQhyxPQk0zRE4yVHtU_A4RuGFlkQVSb1jHb3KGGwGcSPc_eVQIY0/s320/P3160155.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5720592815990992322" /></a><br /><span ><span style="font-size: 100%;">I had to get in on the action, too, so I stole the camera for a quick shot of the 2 of us:</span></span><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh9tPrNcoY8oYAZdG_m8tkW32R44VVMtsgqY00CsTJuzK3EY-cnuCQHWMSnx1EC38bwiYMzbaNmcdR5nr22rFo1jOTyB4qVKCORFVxcHI61DygWzpamZGYA4lGG7s0uGXmv6U6MFcIR-Ib8/s1600/P3160161.JPG" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh9tPrNcoY8oYAZdG_m8tkW32R44VVMtsgqY00CsTJuzK3EY-cnuCQHWMSnx1EC38bwiYMzbaNmcdR5nr22rFo1jOTyB4qVKCORFVxcHI61DygWzpamZGYA4lGG7s0uGXmv6U6MFcIR-Ib8/s320/P3160161.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5720592806889739794" /></a><br /><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; ">After picture taking lost its fun, Gavin finally decided he was ready to try jumping out of the swing. He's watched me do it a gazillion times, but he's always been a bit nervous to try it himself. Today was the day! After a step-by-step tutorial, of course :) Success!</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span ><iframe width="420" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/cpwxSOtagac" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></span></div>Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-11015680109303156902012-03-15T22:55:00.003-06:002012-03-15T23:33:52.822-06:00hair<span >We women can get so very involved with our hair, can't we? </span><div><span ><br /></span></div><div><span >When I had my brain surgery, they had to do some shaving of the head. They shaved from the temple on my left side, close to the hairline on my forehead, then down behind my ear. That's where they had to cut into my head to take out the big honking tangerine sized mass I was evicting from my skull. Next step, bad ass stitches, leading directly to "oh a cool scar!" which I was able to show people for a while since all the hair had been shorn off. The healthy, no cut apart and resown together skin kept all of it's hair, and that hair continued to grow nicely. The shaved off just to make work room for the surgeon hair started and continued to grow also. Radiation therapy began about a month or so later, and that was 5 days a week for 6 weeks. It was, hmm, halfway through that treatment that I felt my first chunk of hair fall out. I was home alone, Scott was out of town, the boys were sleeping, and I was sitting on the couch by the window, reading quietly. I absentmindedly ran my hand through my hair, and my hand came away with a lock of hair that had very recently been attached to my scalp. I just held it out in front of me, unwary and unsure of what to do with it. I don't think I'll need a visual aid to remember losing that hair. I've got that memory quite well burned into my brain.</span><div><span ><br /></span></div><div><span >By the end of radiation I was pretty much finished with losing hair noticibly (I was almost completely bald on the right side of my face, hairline and nearly 2 inches out from the hairline were sparse. On the left side it was certainly there but not quite as naked and bald. I was amazingly lucky that I got to keep the rest of all that hair (I have quite a lot!), and it was time for scarves and bandanas and headbands. And hats. </span></div><div><span ><br /></span></div><div><span >As much as I hated even the thought of pictures of myself during the whole ordeal , I look back now and wish that someone hadn't listened to me. Because I couldn't see myself much in the hospital - they finally brought a mirror over so I could catch a glimpse of my swollen, torn-up self in the ICU. </span></div><div><span ><br /></span></div><div><span >I still, almost a year later, struggle with cameras and pictures. I need to document what I look like through all of these changes. My shorty short hairs are growing in, quickly, and in all different places and layers and even different colors/textures. Aside from my hair, I've also joined WeightWatchers and lost about 30lbs. I've started running. My life is changing, my body is changing, and my mind is changing. </span></div></div><div><span ><br /></span></div><div><span >As I was sitting in the bathroom this evening, pondering what to do to fix the wild mess that is the hair framing my face, it struck me how ridiculous I am. I have hair. It's got some issues, but I have hair, healthy beautiful hair. My scar, though it is so very cool to see, is hidden under all that hair.</span></div><div><span ><br /></span></div><div><span >I don't know why <i>hemangiopericytoma </i>decided it needed to get cozy inside my skull, so very cozy right up on my optic nerve. I don't know how <i>hemangipericytoma</i> works. My doctors do, though, so now that we're almost at the 1-year mark for removal of the tumor it's nearly time for a full body scan to see if that rat bastard tumor sent any friends out to hang on elsewhere inside this rockin hot bod. I see that doc on Friday the 13th and will report back.</span></div><div><span ><br /></span></div><div><span >It hit me today that things could have gone down an entirely different path. I do not frequently allow myself to walk the "could have been" road, because it opens floodgates of thoughts and feelings I usually do not allow myself to have. So, today, I thought about how thankful I am for all I have and for all that I am. I watched my kids through a different lens today, enjoying them with the understanding that I could have had to miss it all. </span></div><div><span ><br /></span></div><div><span >Life is a gift. A precious, delicate, smelly, nonsensical gift. Given with no direction or instruction, life begins and then we are cared for until we can more or less take care of ourselves, at which time we lose our minds and make more of ourselves that we then have to learn to care for, and the cycle goes on and on and on.... </span></div><div><span ><br /></span></div><div><span >It's a gift. I have this gift now. For all I know, I will continue to enjoy this gift for many more decades. If, somehow, that changes, I want to know that I embraced my gift and my life. </span></div>Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-78361232665189644782012-03-15T16:02:00.002-06:002012-03-15T16:14:08.799-06:00not quite perfume...The boys get so sweaty. Colin wakes up with damp, sweaty hair from his nap. Gavin plays outside for all of 3 minutes and he's dripping. <span style="font-size: 100%; ">In just a few years, that sweaty smell is going to become a stinky nastiness. I know this. So, for now, I am relishing the sweet smell of sweaty little boys. </span><div><br /></div><div>Colin has always been snuggly. He'll run up - "Mommy, can I sit in your lap?" - during just about any activity. Just now, he climbed into my lap and happily sat there, playing with his fire truck, while I sniffed his sweaty little head. He's still soft and little-boyish, with those cheeks I still want to nom on. But he's thinning out as he gets taller.</div><div><br /></div><div>Gavin's not as much of a snuggle bug as Colin, or he wasn't when he was littler, but he does enjoy a good cuddle and will ask "wanna snuggle?" whenever there's a chance (and no little brother around to get in the way) on the couch. He's getting to be all lines and angles as he gets bigger and more big-boyish, so it can be hard to really cuddle him, but I do my best to hold him as tight as I can.</div><div><br /></div><div>It's so weird, I know, but I could sniff my little boys all day long. Well, except for when they emit certain smells, which is all too often, but that's an entirely different post......</div>Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-46202961105500351032012-03-14T08:52:00.003-06:002012-03-14T08:58:24.226-06:00potty training woes<span style="font-weight: normal; "><span style="font-weight: normal; ">The woes are all mine. Colin is doing a </span><b>great</b> </span>job - he lets me know when he needs to go, he stays dry during naps and at night (though he's still in a pull-up at night, more for our sanity and peace of mind than anything else), all that. <div><br /></div><div>BUT. He still needs help getting up on the toilet, so he can't go alone. He sits on a potty seat with a pee guard and he can't climb up without assistance. He won't direct his pee into the toilet himself so I can't take the pee guard off, unless I want pee spray all over my bathroom.</div><div><br /></div><div>C wants to stand to pee now. Which is fantastic! Except that he likes to lean back while doing it, so he gets pee everywhere - back of the toilet, then dribbled down his legs and into his underwear. </div><div><br /></div><div>I hereby relinquish hold of the potty training effort and pass the torch to Scott. He pees standing up, after all, and can pass on all of his wisdom to the next generation. </div>Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-90882464800144008432012-03-12T12:11:00.008-06:002012-03-16T14:35:08.334-06:00spring break day 1<div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; ">When I put the boys to bed last night, I reassured them that they did not need to run in and wake me up in the morning - I'm on spring break, after all! - and that they could play in their room or the living room without alerting me to their status as awake. </div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><br /></div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; ">This morning, I heard the *slam* of their door, followed by the slapslapslap of kid feet, that usually heralds the arrival of "MOM! I'M AWAKE!" and two big eyes staring at me by my nightstand. Today, though, the rude awakening didn't arrive. What I heard was a muffled sound of hand-held video games from the other room. </div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><br /></div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; ">When Gavin got up a while later, he joined in the game playing on the other DS (thankyouSam). After a while he was upset by something (not sharing of a game? I dunno, I was in bed!) and I heard him announce "I'm going to get Mommy." Colin answered with "No you can not. Mommy is sleeping." </div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><br /></div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; ">So Gavin stayed away, and they worked it out. By themselves. As I lay there in bed, I cherished that moment - because I know there will not be another like it for about 7 years - and enjoyed the extended stay in my bed. I didn't get up until 8am!!!!!</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><br /></div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; ">After a leisurely morning, it was time to get out of the house for a bit. The boys rode their scooters with me to the park. It was deserted so the kids had the run of the place.</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><br /></div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; ">Gavin tried climbing this thing the last time we went to the park, and he was terrified. I climbed it to show him it was okay, and it seemed to help him see that he'd be fine, and ever since he's been more and more sure of himself while climbing it. (I do not like ladders. That thing scares the bejeebus out of me. I'm so glad it's getting easier for him so I do not ever have to climb it, ever again.)</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><br /></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIEuIqJyfmi2CXQJ7ky3N7MfgJcn4bjbltVFVObcnT8RiCvUj4O6myQgm7Hqx94UcMDyaupyBq9Zrd0_wHQFMPLT-w97e5ibsSCzSXhqAKyApB3qolCb7Z3ZsqBR1URPuEQ4w_OpVzDbIb/s1600/IMAG0619.jpg" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 191px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIEuIqJyfmi2CXQJ7ky3N7MfgJcn4bjbltVFVObcnT8RiCvUj4O6myQgm7Hqx94UcMDyaupyBq9Zrd0_wHQFMPLT-w97e5ibsSCzSXhqAKyApB3qolCb7Z3ZsqBR1URPuEQ4w_OpVzDbIb/s320/IMAG0619.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5719078828075235570" /></a><br /><span><span style="font-size: 100%;">Very proud of himself up at the top!!</span></span><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgn-GpntUW3uOMdvX-lbW8_eJARiNrkfdzsYtKU5cl4KPBlCO9wvxUVRRLBHQH5rdFvJyw907gfO_jwCUmjwui-_PAZozsun2KMStkiWXGqXHGl6J6UHf4KEXZyoKd73b-prolRZ_lydigD/s1600/IMAG0620.jpg" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 191px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgn-GpntUW3uOMdvX-lbW8_eJARiNrkfdzsYtKU5cl4KPBlCO9wvxUVRRLBHQH5rdFvJyw907gfO_jwCUmjwui-_PAZozsun2KMStkiWXGqXHGl6J6UHf4KEXZyoKd73b-prolRZ_lydigD/s320/IMAG0620.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5719078806493754290" /></a><br /><span><span style="font-size: 100%;">Colin still runs with his one arm pumping more than the other. I caught it in action!</span></span><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjd_XkcxwEZId5RAViQvchjQw2Qz-D73kr0owPHOafi4GO4W8Zt-D0TrTQB-ba4HqemCNlcgr7trCNRLKM_CvGX-HjaWIBA39rEEOCIOT6BY6_G5dG7hLNe5qlsS6PBgwTdZtVjrHjEbEKt/s1600/IMAG0623.jpg" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 191px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjd_XkcxwEZId5RAViQvchjQw2Qz-D73kr0owPHOafi4GO4W8Zt-D0TrTQB-ba4HqemCNlcgr7trCNRLKM_CvGX-HjaWIBA39rEEOCIOT6BY6_G5dG7hLNe5qlsS6PBgwTdZtVjrHjEbEKt/s320/IMAG0623.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5719078799998201906" /></a><br /><span><span style="font-size: 100%;">They were playing pirates. Like Gavin's pirate "Argh!" face?</span></span><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgtUchHzKAFD5zMGpP6BwYwpeobJl4Va1ppBOdBHw7h28gGTHZgW1rHV-qeVScr7cVMY5TZTagTgoU3_CqJjEVcIerDM3wkTQl50MWGUE2mZ9JnW1qaDVxWjAj0YBFyOR1lxnKF4KP0jNyu/s1600/IMAG0628.jpg" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 191px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgtUchHzKAFD5zMGpP6BwYwpeobJl4Va1ppBOdBHw7h28gGTHZgW1rHV-qeVScr7cVMY5TZTagTgoU3_CqJjEVcIerDM3wkTQl50MWGUE2mZ9JnW1qaDVxWjAj0YBFyOR1lxnKF4KP0jNyu/s320/IMAG0628.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5719078798636303282" /></a><br /><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; ">Here, after Colin tells us that a pirate says "Arrgh!" I ask him again what a pirate says. I'm looking for him to repeat "Ahoy ladies!" but with no luck. Maybe next time!</div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><br /></div><div style="text-align: center; "><span><iframe width="420" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/XI0x9Mh1eIw" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></span></div><div style="text-align: center; "><span><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span>Colin's pirate voice is hilarious! </span></div><div style="text-align: center; "><span><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center; "><span><iframe width="420" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/eVYrfM8Xi34" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></span></div>Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-18951655739001856442012-03-05T18:00:00.002-06:002012-03-05T18:05:12.905-06:00too soonTomorrow is Kinder Round-Up in RRISD. <div><br /></div><div>Scott has signed up for a time to go in and register my baby for kindergarten. How is that possible? </div><div><br /></div><div>I mean, yeah, he turned 5 in December and promptly lost 2 teeth. He can read the Bob books pretty easily. He can count to 100. He is learning to form letters and can already spell words orally (which means he's breaking my code, dammit). </div><div><br /></div><div>It will be awesome to have him at school with me (he'll travel to my school rather than going to the neighborhood school). I will get to see him more and be more involved. That part, I am so very looking forward to. Also the learning thing. I'm a fan.</div><div><br /></div><div>But the "being old enough for kindergarten" part? This whole school-age thing? For the birds.</div>Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-53751476188370762392012-01-18T18:12:00.002-06:002012-01-18T18:19:23.080-06:00ughSo work sucked today. Really. I was there for 10 hours (6:30am-4:30pm), which is 2 hours longer than I'm "paid" for (I get there early, and I had a meeting go verrrry long), and it was a rough day in many ways. But I get summers off. Right?<div><br /></div><div>Dinner was not high on my list of priorities today. I mean, it was, in that I was starving by the time I got the boys just before 5pm. And since we had to head back out to Walgreens to pick up a prescription and didn't get home until just shy of 5:30, I was ravenous and about to lose my mind if I didn't eat soon. Scott got home and, lovely man that he is, cooked us some hot dogs before he left to go for a run. </div><div><br /></div><div>Gavin ate most of his hot dog in the bun and finished it off out of the bun and is now eating his weight in potato chips. Colin drank a whole lot of milk and started in on his chips but I don't think he'll touch that hot dog tonight. Just ask the kids, they'll tell you, their mom is ALL OVER the healthy eating these days. </div><div><br /></div><div>I hate that I'm so tired from a long ass day at work that I just don't care what they're eating. But... Colin came home in a dry diaper. Gavin helped out with his little brother. They both gave me bunches of hugs and kisses when I picked them up today. I plan to do copious amounts of hugs and snuggles after they finish their horrible, not nutrient-rich dinner. Things could be worse.</div>Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-73923686429999245572012-01-16T13:22:00.002-06:002012-01-16T13:34:41.004-06:00successes!Colin is 2. He will be 3 in February, not entirely 2 months away anymore. I was starting to think the kid would head to kinder in diapers. He just did not seem to care that his diaper was wet or full of a big nasty poop or anything.<div><br /></div><div>We started putting him in pull-ups (left over from Gavin), then underpants when we ran low, last weekend maybe? I watched the clock and sat him down every 30 minutes or less. He would go pee no problem. Yay! But come time to poo? 2-3 times a day I was dumping a nasty turd out of underpants because he never had to go when I had him on the littly potty. </div><div><br /></div><div>The little potty is currently in the living room - gag - because he was much more amenable to sitting there with the rest of us around. It will move back to the bathroom really very super soon. I hope.</div><div><br /></div><div>This weekend, we've started having more success. Colin's undies have been dry (and if we go out somewhere and I put him in a diaper, it stays dry too!) pretty much all weekend. He's pooped *in the potty* more than he has out of it, and yesterday he started to go while playing (first floor puddle, fun) but told us and finished on the potty. We're getting there!</div><div><br /></div><div>Today, while finishing his lunch/playing with his Happy Meal toy at the table (they were good when we went up to my classroom, they got a treat, disgusting but they love it) I ran to the office for a second. Colin yelled "I need to go pee pee potty!" so I ran back, yanked down the undies, and had him sit right down. He needed to pee AND poop, and he did, and it was all in the potty, and I sat there with a big idiot grin so ridiculously awesomely fantastically happy that he'd <u>finally</u> told me he needed to go BEFORE HE WENT. </div><div><br /></div><div>We are not out of the potty training trenches. Not by a long shot. A looooooong shot, to be certain. Colin is afraid of the big potty (especially public toilets, public restrooms freak him out with the big loud flushes and the noise of the hand dryers and whatnot), so moving to the actual bathroom (and out of the living room) will be a series of steps. Going while out in public? I'm dreading that. It's a necessary hurdle, and one I wish we could jump without having Gavin along for the ride (he can be a cheerleader or a pestering fly, depending on his mood).</div><div><br /></div><div>But we are making progress, and there is an end in sight to the diapers. </div>Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-59580623873549611342012-01-14T09:17:00.006-06:002012-01-14T10:11:48.388-06:00already?Gavin turned 5 just before Christmas. The very next day, he came into the kitchen saying that his tooth was loose. I didn't believe it, until Scott tried to wiggle it and said that, sure enough, it was loose! I wiggled it myself, and then immediately burst into tears. Already? A loose tooth?<div><br /></div><div>Sometime in the next day or two, I looked into Gavin's mouth at his teeth and noticed that his big boy adult <b>teeth</b> (yes, plural, there were <b>two!</b>) were growing in behind his bottom two teeth. And yes, the other bottom tooth was also wiggly. Holy growing up fast, batman!</div><div><br /></div><div>Wednesday of this week, Gavin's loosest tooth was super wiggly. Overnight, apparently, it decided it was time, because his tooth fell out in his sleep. Luckily, Scott was able to find the tiny little thing somewhere in the tangle of Gavin's sheets and blankets in the top bunk bed. He put his tooth in the little green tooth chest the dentist gave him just over a week ago and waited through the day patiently to put it under his pillow for the tooth fairy that night.</div><div><br /></div><div>Last night, the other tooth was barely hanging on. Worried about it also falling out in bed, Scott talked Gavin into letting him yank it out with dental floss. While we were on Skype with Grammy, Scott tied a bit of floss around the tooth and YANK! Nothing. The tooth hung on, the stubborn thing. They decided to try it again, since Gavin is super brave, and YANK! The tooth came out! G said it didn't hurt at all :)</div><div><br /></div><div>The toothless wonder:</div><div><br /></div><div>(picture coming soon! I just have to get it off my phone....)</div>Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-38533171235598491972011-12-01T20:43:00.007-06:002011-12-02T20:05:28.895-06:00what a difference a year makes!<div style="text-align: left;">The boys opened up Day 1 of their lego Star Wars advent calendar today. Watching them put it together with Scott reminded me of Gavin putting together his first item from last year's Lego advent calendar. I had to dig up the pictures and video on my phone, and it was amazing to look at Gavin a year ago. He was 3, almost 4, and wow. Colin was 1, soon to be 2. And still basically bald!</div><div><br /></div><div>This video is about 2 and a half minutes long. Big Gavin and Colin fans, you can watch the whole thing, but even just the first little bit shows you how different he was and how much they've both grown.</div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen='allowfullscreen' webkitallowfullscreen='webkitallowfullscreen' mozallowfullscreen='mozallowfullscreen' width='320' height='266' src='https://www.blogger.com/video.g?token=AD6v5dx8j5HA4aTcfuR2gC-bLZT85SJynU2KCWNmyjXL80h5jK8gUG8RLFtUR4tDNZskcDrwnRgGO3J3fhRzE1gx' class='b-hbp-video b-uploaded' frameborder='0'></iframe></div><div style="text-align: center;"> </div><div><div><br /></div><div>Here's a picture of them putting together this year's calendar. Last year we kept it up on a</div><div> dresser to keep Colin out of it, but this year it's on the boys' table in the office. They can get to it to play with it whenever they want.</div><div><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj9y3fYGnBVnF6TnYbkxCdcKJhBRTDuJo18TdO2gFKnZIxdgIf-81sgRuNRU37Gw1UALV6k4jK2JyiRYQWOti1YGOYQxgTl4AG5uvg_Al-hGdNYkIUwwDtMXUTsuz0RpuHyGeW-gyNCClMU/s320/IMAG0517.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5681357501875762642" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 191px; " /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>We have an elf on our shelf! He arrived yesterday and rested his weary self on a speaker in the living room after his long trek from the North Pole. We read all about him, and the boys decided to name him Quincy. I asked Gavin where in the world he heard that name, and he answered that it was on Little Einsteins. I didn't know he watched that show!</div><div><br /></div><div>Here is a shot of Quincy, comfortably resting in the bathroom while he keeps up with whether the boys are naughty or nice.</div><div><br /></div><div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgSJb-P2J8eUPi5YHnKY1vXFWvzEHoq1lhaOJoMJTtjs6xhUcHTpNRAj-9HrOTpcolQXEu00NrvpRCDrix8EhQFXBULkGlc7AfoPdU-dyWqCmIJaMqjUAy4ptgCo1Kc6jYxO7qv360H-HWM/s320/IMAG0518.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5681357505824097714" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 191px; " /><div></div></div><div><br /></div></div><div>After seeing Gavin and Colin in the video from last year, I had to get some video of them this year. Voila....</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen='allowfullscreen' webkitallowfullscreen='webkitallowfullscreen' mozallowfullscreen='mozallowfullscreen' width='320' height='266' src='https://www.blogger.com/video.g?token=AD6v5dyIpEfEQGprWypR_oTm7LQ_60rQmqe2m2Fw-miTLnRBKlM5HSwSjRcLvTGnW6Dp3KyD1gK9wlmrSWGkYF2Pdg' class='b-hbp-video b-uploaded' frameborder='0'></iframe></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Did you notice that, according to Colin, Santa says "Yo ho ho!" ??? Pirate Santa!</div>Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-17159130810774793372011-11-13T10:03:00.003-06:002011-11-13T10:24:21.887-06:00coming up on 6 months...It's been almost 6 months since my surgery. As I have come to realize that milestone is just about here (Thursday!) it's bizarre that it's only been 6 months, since it feels like a lifetime has passed, and that it's been 6 whole long months, since it feels like it was yesterday. I know that makes no sense whatsoever. <div><br /></div><div>Memories of that whole time are either crisp and clear or fuzzy and fading. I remember talking on the phone to my doctor and hearing the words "we see a small mass." I remember the feeling of terror, not knowing what that meant for me and my family and what would happen next, and I remember starting to shake as she told me to go home, pack a bag, and go to the emergency room, where she had a neurosurgeon already expecting me. I almost want to cry right now remembering it. I went out to my car, started crying, and called home - but I had to get off the phone before driving home, since my double vision + crying = holy unsafe driving conditions, Batman.</div><div><br /></div><div>I remember pizza being ordered and my parents being home with the boys while Scott took me to the hospital. I remember being admitted into the ER and Scott staying with me in the room while nurses came and went. The nurses had spoken with my doctor and seemed to know what was going on with me, but I didn't. All I knew still was what I'd heard on the phone from my primary care doctor. Oh, and this whole time we were listening to someone, somewhere else in the ER, vomit loudly and seemingly painfully. It was finally later that the neuro doc came in and talked to us. I remember trusting him right away, which was a big relief. I didn't know what was happening now and what would happen next, but I trusted that this man would take care of me. I think I just had to. </div><div><br /></div><div>I was finally admitted to a room upstairs on the 4th floor. I think it was maybe around midnight? That kind of stuff is fuzzy. I know that on Saturday I wasn't allowed to eat until after I had a procedure, and that sucked. Afterwards I had to lay completely flat, and I tried to eat a sandwich (a BLT?) and because the bread was toasted I was *covered* in breadcrumbs. All in my neck. Very uncomfortable!</div><div><br /></div><div>The thing that's sticking out for me, as I take my trip down memory lane, is how I felt as I was going into surgery. I'd not really thought about "I can do this" or "I can't do this" because I *had to* do this. There was never any discussion about "Do we want this? What are our options?" It was just understood that, with a tumor the size of a tangerine in my brain, it had to come out. I remember getting wheeled down to surgery on the wheelie bed. I remember Scott and my mom sitting with me pre-op, and I remember being terrified but resigned as they inserted something in my IV. Then I remember blinking and thinking (and saying) "I can't do this." And Scott told me, "babe, it's done, you're out of surgery." And I don't know if I cried right then. But I think I did. I remember bursting into tears and being held while I cried, but if that happened directly after I woke I know I was super duper totally stoned on medications and I can't be perfectly sure how it all went down. I know I didn't cry for long, but it had to come out, and it did. Then it was on to getting stronger and better. </div><div><br /></div><div>And I am.</div>Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-17761498382675756422011-10-30T07:54:00.002-06:002011-10-30T07:56:45.504-06:00goodbye "Gawan"Colin has said Gavin as "Gawan" for as long as I remember him being able to say his brother's name. Yesterday, I noticed him really enunciating "GaVin," especially the v. Gav told me that he and Blake and Allison were helping Colin learn to say it correctly. As sweet as that it, it's always sad when one of the "baby" ways of saying something starts to fade away.Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-4741406787184768632011-10-22T15:34:00.005-06:002011-10-22T15:52:10.597-06:00t-ball<div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div>Gavin played fall ball this year, and today was their tournament. It was a single elimination tournament, so once the team lost they were finished. Our game was at 9am, so it was nice outside for the boys to play. Warming up but still cool enough to be comfortable.<div><br /></div><div>Gavin played catcher at first. He loves to play catcher and will request to do so whenever possible. It's the only infield position he played this season! He spends a lot of time in the outfield :)</div><div><br /></div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj-mUkY-CcloxboyQBPc75BsvcyI1pFTl5rFZTwSQbHTdCwFqF4R8v-qA-u7bU0L8eCxy8-D_Q1X1qmbC9NgOxXV90SKDoVx6dQaoTOAFfXtboCDgRBW225t18XfC37mHfMHB3dBtafHk6f/s320/catcher.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666434736380632658" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 191px; " /><div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">I got video of Gavin at his first at-bat, and for some reason the video is horrible. Why my camera had to act up, I don't know, but you can see him hit even with the wonkiness. The video did show him running to first but that's not visible now. </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen='allowfullscreen' webkitallowfullscreen='webkitallowfullscreen' mozallowfullscreen='mozallowfullscreen' width='320' height='266' src='https://www.blogger.com/video.g?token=AD6v5dzOiC0CET_ZVbqiVUWsqldXxRBwMTnr1nc1EocPLmWBNeLGcfsHFol0Ap8P3j_F9ky9TunAsOSBnS2av8Hn7w' class='b-hbp-video b-uploaded' frameborder='0'></iframe></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">I also got video of Gavin running to home during that same at-bat. Thankfully, that video turned out just fine!!</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><iframe allowfullscreen='allowfullscreen' webkitallowfullscreen='webkitallowfullscreen' mozallowfullscreen='mozallowfullscreen' width='320' height='266' src='https://www.blogger.com/video.g?token=AD6v5dzfz-Hw6SkZ7UNUdbskIuAuFU95Jiz62IayCj7pfYLd40j6vYzAvAatCOoEOOLc6P81-HjbnfZKG8QApWTp8A' class='b-hbp-video b-uploaded' frameborder='0'></iframe></div><div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><div style="text-align: left;">The game was neck and neck. There is a 5-run limit each inning, so after 4 innings the teams were tied 20-20. Sudden death in t-ball is interesting. Each team starts with a runner on 2nd base, and you play until there is an out. Switch and repeat. We fielded first, and the other team scored 3 runs before Gavin's team got one of them out at first base. Then we were up at bat, and one of Gavin's teammates had one of the most beautiful hits I've ever seen at one of his t-ball games. Somehow, it went directly to a member of the other team, who caught it! So there was their one out, with no points scored, meaning the other team won the game. Gavin's team was thus out of the tournament. (Don't tell Gavin, but I was so relieved - I don't think Colin had it in him to sit through another t-ball game!)</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">Here's the team, kids and coaches, posing with their banner after the game:</div><br /><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh1haYGB224EjbXr2ZFEEB7ps63fZRi-YNkU-oHNOk3OfwCma4nZsAlT2D-yHawyFtiyE7kCAJwnKCzLwLCKTLS76pFYw2_apITjRDXFKpqKlTDQwJKZStTA8K-pSQjRgBEH5v0um72-cdk/s320/team+pic.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666434737992536770" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 191px; " /></div><div><br /><div>Gavin had a great time playing with these kids. They were a really good group. G is the youngest on the team at not yet 5, and the rest of them are 5 and 6. The boys took good care of him and were always great about including him. I'm not going to miss going to practice every week and going to games every Saturday, but I am going to miss how happy Gavin was whenever we went to t-ball and how much fun he had. He will soon be counting down until the spring season begins!</div></div></div></div>Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-13635984570664517662011-10-21T18:58:00.003-06:002011-10-22T07:00:11.546-06:00I love you, sweet boyOur bedtime has a very standard routine, night after night. After we read a story in the bottom bunk together, Gavin climbs the ladder to the top bunk. I'll climb up, tuck him in, kiss and hug, then we share I love yous. Next comes Colin - he insists on being the last one tucked in - and we do the same thing. Tuck in, kiss and hug, and share I love yous. <div><br /></div><div>I didn't realize I always said "Good night, sweet boy" until he came back at me with "Good night, sweet girl." It comes out more like "good night sweet gwiw" since his l's and r's are still w's, which is really even cuter. Last night I said "good night sweetheart" and he replied "good night sweetheart girl." </div><div><br /></div><div>I love those boys so fiercely it hurts. In a good way.</div>Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-13612330540312196322011-10-14T19:37:00.003-06:002011-10-14T19:43:14.553-06:00dinosaurs!<div><br /></div><div>Okay, really, how is one person so ridiculously talented? Gramma Joy has again created the most amazing Halloween costumes for the boys. We got a big box from UPS today and opened it after we got home. We unearthed 3 dinosaur costumes - a green one for Gavin, a blue one for Colin, and a pink and purple one for Nora (who is our adorable and awesome neighbor but who has not yet seen the cuteness that is her new dino costume). The boys HAD to put their dinosaurs on to try them out:</div><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhcM2jmZ0LyQJa0vOGBFcoV9q_-J5yNDXuzr1bGMC0PRHgopAHoeYwqsFOh5Wjx0U-EuYOjqIus2aX07wx7STAXSjuzPeTvQlrgTTFrvfSnxr7Evb0OcN8IDHmKeE7zmbZ5oMLSTi6I2BuY/s1600/dinos.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 191px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhcM2jmZ0LyQJa0vOGBFcoV9q_-J5yNDXuzr1bGMC0PRHgopAHoeYwqsFOh5Wjx0U-EuYOjqIus2aX07wx7STAXSjuzPeTvQlrgTTFrvfSnxr7Evb0OcN8IDHmKeE7zmbZ5oMLSTi6I2BuY/s320/dinos.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5663527131689772338" /></a>I took the boys into my bathroom to look in the full length mirror to get a peek of how they looked. Both of Gavin's hands shot to his mouth as he looked in awe at the sight before him. He was speechless. And grinning like crazy. Colin noticed that his dinosaur has wings, so he started running around, yelling "flap! flap!" Both boys commenced chasing each other, roaring, and trying to attack each other with their tails. <div><br /></div><div>I made them take off the dino ensembles before dinner so they didn't get yucky and covered with food. Hopefully they are not yet completely covered in dog hair! I cannot WAIT for Halloween so they can show off their costumes!!</div>Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-88924988931151312902011-07-07T18:37:00.002-06:002011-07-07T18:43:24.891-06:00tumor pictures<div>Okay, if you don't want to see pictures of this horrible big thing that my doctor removed from my brain, close your browser now. </div><div><br /></div><div>The images below are from the MRI done on May 14, the day after I was admitted to the hospital. My neurologist showed me this scan when he told me about the procedure he planned to do. It was surreal. </div><div><br /></div><div>I have since had post-operative scans that show my brain is healing awesomely. It's spreading out to retake the space that had been stolen by the invading forces of the tumor. The swelling inside is going down nicely.</div><div><br /></div><div>These first 3 pictures show slices of the scan going from the top of my head down:</div><div><br /></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOTVvmD6yk1VVIU3jeIIzW7s36rCJMuNidvq-wUvILkYKBMFiUo87z-2L_8vhldiAtJamAephujYh6wzfk7yJBdLIzJ_Mw9d4Vp0PsEYVBYCIc4eJY59kZhU1TBOOchzJhPuok_flUnVOW/s1600/brain+0226.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOTVvmD6yk1VVIU3jeIIzW7s36rCJMuNidvq-wUvILkYKBMFiUo87z-2L_8vhldiAtJamAephujYh6wzfk7yJBdLIzJ_Mw9d4Vp0PsEYVBYCIc4eJY59kZhU1TBOOchzJhPuok_flUnVOW/s320/brain+0226.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5626774352046867794" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEglwP4GtxwAwJJjvIzb4iV8IylswDyqDIPpUJxgut9kh9twWty7Pgm4Drd76tXDKSLjLKWIKhOc2RXBFqS2Fvg8nbb6bQbYzXaBvaSarhBc7tXFVKLVsGV0zRrcc2nI6qxsVyouyEmIoPoN/s1600/brain+0227.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEglwP4GtxwAwJJjvIzb4iV8IylswDyqDIPpUJxgut9kh9twWty7Pgm4Drd76tXDKSLjLKWIKhOc2RXBFqS2Fvg8nbb6bQbYzXaBvaSarhBc7tXFVKLVsGV0zRrcc2nI6qxsVyouyEmIoPoN/s320/brain+0227.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5626774349635327858" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJ4s0LkQ3idaenytyMguJ8x4kJWb-9FHdZBVWIzP22eDWgJgKOYZzD_45Cuqq4JkXqd3lyaa4YLqZhCLw-J3Vn_4pmtmNFUyLpoQA92xh3XtM1N2gGJMUswxZw5Fl-r3QkXdy1r_3rW6J9/s1600/brain+0228.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJ4s0LkQ3idaenytyMguJ8x4kJWb-9FHdZBVWIzP22eDWgJgKOYZzD_45Cuqq4JkXqd3lyaa4YLqZhCLw-J3Vn_4pmtmNFUyLpoQA92xh3XtM1N2gGJMUswxZw5Fl-r3QkXdy1r_3rW6J9/s320/brain+0228.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5626774343234721746" /></a><br /><div>This last picture is from the side - the tumor was on the right side, just behind my eye, hence the double vision:</div><div><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhbMcOTJMvW-Eq0IMsarwCRR2Pnf17SHAFGA2mGvACIjTYo1ysigGaZBLwhBSjLlttG2DAmTFoBKJ5SV3Vk5-PwgKt5c6DRMLDB0kEcjB4CoBNCqoP-oTbEs9iEtyLXUfJpWc08kUSTDSp/s1600/brain+0282+side+view.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhbMcOTJMvW-Eq0IMsarwCRR2Pnf17SHAFGA2mGvACIjTYo1ysigGaZBLwhBSjLlttG2DAmTFoBKJ5SV3Vk5-PwgKt5c6DRMLDB0kEcjB4CoBNCqoP-oTbEs9iEtyLXUfJpWc08kUSTDSp/s320/brain+0282+side+view.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5626774340841807506" /></a><br /></div><div>Holy shit. I am so glad that thing is gone.</div>Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7566746635773333662.post-746958182413031102011-06-13T07:12:00.003-06:002011-06-13T07:25:21.999-06:00update on stuff<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial; font-size: small; ">Things are good! I am stronger and I don't get tired as easily. No more headaches from the healing inside my brain, but I do still get headaches from the outside of my head healing. They had to cut my jaw muscle (the chewing muscle by my ear) so I still can't open my mouth super wide (yawning hurts!) but it's healing and getting better. The area where they had to separate muscle from bone during surgery is where I get sore, usually at the end of the day, and I usually go to sleep with a kiddie ice pack. Luckily, it doesn't really bother me during the day. It's just when I'm in bed and not doing anything and I'm tired that I feel it.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: arial; font-size: small; "><div><br /></div><div>Today will be a test of my energy level - the boys are home with me today, and Scott will be at work! They've been going to the babysitter's house the past 2 weeks since school let out, and starting today they're home with me full time. I'm excited to spend time with them and have our world back to normal, but I'm nervous about how exhausted I'll be by the time Scott gets home! I have an appointment at 3pm today so Scott's sister Beth is coming over to watch the boys. As much as I'm not looking forward to going to an oncologist (though I do want to hear more about exactly what this tumor was and what I'm looking forward to in the future) I think I will need a break away from the kids to rest! :)</div><div><br /></div><div>I've been doing really well. Before surgery, I could stay in bed all morning and then get back in a few hours later for a nap. Now, I'm up at 6:45-7am (today I was up before the boys) and only if it's been a really busy day (like yesterday, yard work and swimming) do I need a nap. I've been pretty much just in the house for the past couple of weeks, since I wasn't able to drive, but now I'll be doing more with the kids home. We have several play dates planned, and thank goodness for that, other people's kids can entertain them! I'm trying to get some crafty stuff together for us to do, but the kids really just like to play with action figures these days :) </div><div><br /></div><div>Gavin no longer takes a nap, so I'm thinking that while Colin naps in the afternoon we'll have "school" time. Math seems to happen at dinner (this kid is sharp, I am so screwed), and we can read anytime, so nap work will most likely be a lot of handwriting practice. He doesn't like to write (his daddy is the same, his handwriting is abhorrent) but I want to help him work on holding his pencil correctly before he goes to school. Pencil grip is set in place by age 5 or 6 and it's ridiculously difficult to change the habit afterwards. I fight kids at school constantly on that front!</div><div><br /></div><div>All in all, things are fabulous. I am an entirely different person than I was in the 6 months or so before surgery. I have energy, I am happy, I want to interact with my family and friends, I want to be a part of things. It's good.</div><div><br /></div><div>Enough about me - I started this blog to chronicle how things were going with the boys, and I have totally hijacked it with my brain tumor crap. Sorry! </div><div><br /></div><div>Gavin finished his t-ball season while I was in the hospital. I missed his last game and closing ceremonies :( He loved t-ball, and he even got a certificate for most improved hitter from his coach! Now he's back in swimming lessons (we had stopped because it interfered with t-ball games on Saturdays) and he's doing really well. We didn't sign Colin up this time because there wasn't an opening in a parent/child class at the same time as Gavin's class, but we checked this weekend and there is 1 opening for each at 10:30am, so we're hoping no one takes them and we can move both boys to that time slot and both can take swim lessons. (Wow, holy run on sentence Batman!) Colin kept asking to get in the pool on Saturday when we were watching Gavin. We took the boys to our neighborhood pool yesterday, and Colin wasn't excited about getting completely under the water. He had a blast, though, with me holding him and kicking his legs. I think once he's back in swim lessons he'll warm up to it all soon.</div><div><br /></div><div>What this blog needs is PICTURES! I've been taking pictures with my phone and usually they get posted on Facebook. Dumb FB is why I never update the blog, it's an immediate update. This summer I will try to take more pictures (these kids are growing so fast!) and post them online. A girl's gotta have goals!</div></span>Anniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05782204957148134712noreply@blogger.com0